Here are the tricks that make him last longer in bed. Does it happen that your partner occasionally reaches the climax just three minutes in the act? A lot of men are strugling with premature ejaculation. Fortunately, there are a number of good tips that can help him to master the problem!
Premature ejaculation is when a male ejaculates (comes) before he or his partner would like. Younger men who are sexually inexperienced usually don’t last this long because the excitement is all too much. One reason a man climaxes too quickly is because he’s excited, usually about a new sexual conquest.
The foreplay should be about you
Predict a very important part of the intercourse, and all people, regardless of sex, need this to put the brain in sex mode. But, if you want your partner to last longer, the foreplay should be about you and your enjoyment. As you probably know, women usually need a lot more stimulation than men to get a orgasm, so it’s best if the foreplay is about you in the beginning, and becomes more reciprocal. It is very useful with a foreplay that consists of at least five to ten minutes stimulation of the woman, while the man should initially get quite little so he does not “come” too early.
Try the start and stop method
Another advice that can make the act last longer is the start and stop method. This is a hugging technique that can give your partner better control over their orgasms. Many men have a great effect of this method. This requires some patience, as well as some trial and error. The method is to teach the body a new pattern – that you have sexual intercourse until you know you are close to coming.
When this happens, stop all movement, squeeze the penis head so that the urethra is clamped again and hold it until the feeling goes over – then you continue. This should be repeated every time you masturbate or have sexual intercourse. At first, you may not be able to do it at all, but afterwards you will notice that you have gained much better control over your orgasms.
Use a anesthetic spray
In addition to trying out the start and stop method, you can purchase an anesthetic spray. An anesthetic spray for the penis, used before sex, helps men delay orgasm six times longer than usual. This spray has promise to become one of the most effective treatments for premature ejaculation. Spray the penis head 10 to 15 minutes before intercourse so that he becomes less sensitive. But remember: do not overdo the amount, then the feeling can disappear completely. There are also condoms with anesthetic in it, the condom itself may also reduce sensitivity so that it is able to stay longer under the act.